- The only value that is absolutely necessary is that she believes in God. If a woman does not already believe in God, she is not worth marrying. She will poison your lineage if you do procreate with her at that stage. If she is open to being lead to God, then work on that before you commit, and definitely do not have children with her until she submits to God.
- A good wife must serve you, and submit to your authority. The man submits to God and his work, the woman submits to God and her husband. There are many Bible verses about a quarrelsome wife. If she does not heed your words, or constantly picks fights with you, then you need to call her out and put a stop to it -- that behavior is often called the shit test. If she does not change, then she is not wife material. When I look for a woman, I look towards the Bible story of Isaac's wife, Rebecca. Isaac sent his servant to the nation of his fathers' to find him a wife. The servant found Rebecca, and she proved her worthiness by her willingness to serve. Rebecca drew water for the servant and all his camels. Rebecca's servitude and obedience made her good wife material.
- A good wife often has a good upbringing. A home schooled woman will typically make for the best wife material. Women that are home schooled are usually well rounded, moral, intelligent, good home makers, and will often have a desire to home school their own children. Home schooling also keeps the influence from society at a minimum, which will also increase the odds that she is a virgin. A virgin woman is ideal. After that, you'll want to marry a woman who has slept with the least amount of men as possible. If she was once a self described feminist, lesbian, whore, bi-sexual, or of any other kind of Modernite sickness, then she is not worth the time. A case could be made for a VERY reformed woman, but most of the time, it's not worth the trouble.
- A good wife must be loyal. A loyal woman has your six. A loyal woman will not gossip about you, will not tell others your faults or weaknesses, will not put you down or otherwise discourage you, will not nag you, and will not challenge your decisions publicly. The loyal woman should sometimes question you privately, but if she betrays you in any of the above ways while dating, kick her to the curb.
Here are some considerations for you, as the husband. Do not abuse your authority over her. Keep her happy. Pay heed to her needs, but do not bend for her. Remember, a woman will undermine her own security and happiness if given the chance. Women are not leaders, that is the husband's job. A strong husband tells his wife "no." She will love you for your stern leadership.
Bonus wisdom: Never forget that God's punishments can last through generations, or that a woman who was once a Modernite, could easily betray you (Ex: Samson and his whore). The taint of either yours, or your wife's past deeds can poison your lineage. But, also keep in mind that God is merciful, like with the mercy for the whore Rahab, with the scarlet cord. So, be a better follower of God, NOW! That way, you can minimize the taint of sin on your lineage, and also maximize the Lord's favor in you.
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