News flash, men. Women don't want a nice guy. Women want a man who knows his own authority, and won't allow her to rule him. A woman wants a man who will tell her "no." A woman wants a man who will tell her to be silent when she is trying to start a fight or otherwise becoming hysterical in her emotions.
The problem is that "assholes" are just that, assholes. The asshole has a selfish authority that a worldly woman mistakes for true, God-given authority. A woman will not find a loving husband and father of her children in such a man. Neither will she find the man that will protect and support her. What she will find is the man that will put her down, sexually degrade her, force her to get abortions, and leave her when the next woman comes along looking for the man who knows how to at least act like a man.
You see, to act like a man is not to be a man. To be a man, one must first submit themselves to God-through-Christ. Once that is accomplished, a man on his way to becoming a true-man can learn that God the Father gave him an authority that is equal to every other man on the earth. An authority over the whole earth, the animals, and yes, especially women. Women know this, and think that the asshole has this.
Now you can see why "women love assholes." A woman loves that the asshole man won't cow-tail to her every whim and desire. The asshole won't treat her as some goddess, like the nice guy. The asshole will piss her off. We all know a woman loves to be pissed off. So, piss her off! Tell her that she is lesser than men. Tell her that she should be submissive, polite, humble, and silent when men are speaking. For that is all true.
However, do not mistake knowing that a woman is lesser than a man as an excuse to mistreat her. It is, in fact, quite the contrary. As men, the woman is our responsibility. And this responsibility is not a small one. For it was because of Adam, our first earthly father, that we men - males - bear the sin of the world, not Eve and not woman. For Eve was not yet created from man when the covenant between God and Adam was established. And, all good Christians should understand that sin cannot be repudiated without the law, and there was no law for mankind until the time of the Old Covenant, with Moses.
How then could the sin of tempting Adam to eat of the apple be placed upon one who had not partook of the covenant, the contract, the law, with God? Genesis 3:17, Then to Adam He said, “Because you have heeded the voice of your wife, and have eaten from the tree of which I commanded you, saying, ‘You shall not eat of it’: “Cursed is the ground for your sake; In toil you shall eat of it all the days of your life."
Now you understand that the sins of the world are lain at the feet of men, men being males. This means the state of this world is the blame of men, not women. As men we must take responsibility for our reprobate societies. This degradation that we men have allowed can only be put to an end by men of God-in-Christ knowing their own God-given authority, and no longer giving up our God-given authority to evil governments, women, and children.
Can you see why "women love asshole men," now? They "love" them because the asshole doesn't submit to her. He doesn't allow her to walk all over him. He gets pissed off when she acts the fool - as many a woman is so inclined to do. That is what women want, that man who puts her in her place. Women want to be told what that place in life is. Women want to be given a purpose.
The "asshole" is only correct in that he doesn't submit to a woman. But, everything else he does is wrong, and is actually worse than what the "nice guy" does. As you should know by now, both the asshole and nice guy are misguided.
The asshole thinks he is the center of the world. The nice guy thinks the woman is the center of the world. The true-man knows, understands, and believes that God-in-Christ is the center of all goodness. The true-man knows that the order is first God, second Christ, third man, and lastly woman. What does that tell you?
It tells you that you should treat all men as equal in authority - that means the pope, the president, kings, and leaders. It also tells you that treating a woman with her due-respect is your responsibility as a man. This responsibility and due-respect being to assign her tasks, to uplift her, to teach her, to guide her, to make her happy, to protect her, to love her, to submit her, and to make her a mother. But, it also entails that you do NOT allow women to rule you, nor other men. Unless, those men are serving God-in-Christ and behaving as good leaders of men.
May God guide those good men who would be leaders of men, and those good women who would be examples for other women.
God bless.
Logos rises.
