If you want to become a more confident man, or woman, than the easiest way to get started is to stand up straight, comfortably pull your shoulders back, and keep you head and neck in line with the rest of your body. This will have the effect of signaling to others that you're a person who is sure of themselves and their environment. That will in turn signal in your subconscious that you really do know what you're doing.
You see, the key to confidence is not actually knowing what you're doing -- although that greatly helps -- but looking like you know what you're doing. If you stand tall and perform everything that you do -- at least trivial matters that do not require actual knowledge -- in a manner that makes you look like you know what you're doing, then most of the time it will pay off.
Of course standing tall, acting confident, and being sure of oneself are only worldly tips. True confidence and knowledge comes from worshiping God, and constant study. Ask God to show you the way, and to open your eyes to His will. If you keep faith with Him, then He will answer.
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